Weakest link..

So I finally was a bit blew my fuse with the person that wouldn't stop stalking hasseling me about our friendship. I just couldn't take it anymore. When I first got to this point I was cordial and used words that I thought were appropriate, but to the point, words that didn't make me seem like I was cold hearted a jerk or them like the loser they are it was their "fault"..one of those, it's not me, it's you situations, but in reality it was ALL THEM and I was willing to come off as the bad person and not call them out completely about why I'm chosing to terminate the "friendship." Not that I have to explain my own actions or why I'm chosing to do something, but to them, they just wouldn't let it go and just had to know. Well, bad move on their part because I was brutually honest and frank about them and the situation. If you're a 'regular' reader of my blogs I've made mention of this person here and here too but you can best believe this is THEE last blog about this situation. Well because I got tired of my phone ringing, I answered and the conversation went something like this:

Them: I dont understand why we can't be friends, did you just wake up one day and decide that
Me: Yes.
Them: but something something something(I wasn't paying attention, I was watching Saving Grace)
Me: are you done? I don't have anything else to say and I've told you to stop calling me
Them: If you were (insert their town name here) you wouldn't even tell me huh
Me: did you get a call from me (insert last time I WAS in their town) which was recent?
Them:*silence*
Me: well, there's your answer.
Me: You're like a leech and you try and suck the life out of me. You are a constant reminder of a bad judgement call on my part for even entertaining the association in the first place, who wants to be constantly reminded of mistakes. We were never that cool to begin with, get over it and move on with your life..I haven't given you a thought in months and its usually not until I see "do not answer" on my caller ID then I roll my eyes and say why is ___ still calling my damn phone.
Them: *silent*
Me: STOP CALLING ME, STOP IMING ME, LEAVE ME ALONE..like seriously, this is THEE last time you're going to hear my voice. I don't care what is going on with your job, your loser ass family and friends, or with you for that matter..I DO NOT CARE
Them: so you're saying you need some space
Me: Have a good life you whiny clingy bi...*click*

I know I know, say it ain't so!! That reads like I am a bi super mean person!! and in all honesty it was mean, but they didn't take the hint months ago when I was down to earth and amicable about the situation. I'm not gonna lie I did feel a little bad when I hung up the phone...but it was a fleeting feeling. For the life of me I don't understand WHY??? they feel the need for us to be super cool. The way they're acting you'd think we were having relations, it ain't even close to that... I would hate to see how it would be if I were a real friend when we were cool so what in the heehaw do they want from me??? I never misrepresented what level of association we had. If I call, I call, if I don't I don't. I was honest about my shady tendencies with people, they knew that I keep a lot of my personal life to myself and I'd probably never share any of it with them. They knew that I can only take so much whining from adults who have the ability to change their situations. They knew all that from jump, so, when I got to the point where I was tired of them draining me with their own whiney issues and other drama filled moments, I withdrew. It was really easy because there was no kinda emotional or personal attachment for me. Then I finally removed myself from the equation and told them that I'm not the person they want me to be and it went downhill for them from there. EYE know I'm cool but damn....it really aint that serious...

I can say today that I sincerely wish them the best and that I shouldn't have went that route with them because that's not how I handle situations. I like to keep a cool head and not let anger get the best of me. I'm way too level headed and grounded to essentially verbally abuse another adult but I now think they got the picture that I was serious. Needy, clingly people scare me..I don't want to come home to 2222H and somebody be all in my bushes...

You are the weakest link...goodbye!

Brown..out!