Really can spoil it for the WHOLE bunch. I swear folks take my kindness for weakness or maybe my kindness has become a weakness, but I recently found out I was blatantly LIED to and burned by someone I call(ed) a friend. The review is still out on whether or not they'll still be called a friend, but I know I won't be a sucker! I'm really surprised at their actions and I kinda want to put em on blast but I'm not the e-beefing type but I had to get some of this anger out of my head. I talked to them and they gave me this sob story and they apologized (not sure it was an apology because they got caught or an apology for their actions) and said "I'll make it up to you" No, don't make it up to me, make it up to yourself. Folks, your word in most cases is the most valuable asset you can have. If you can't stand behind your word and follow through on what you said, then that means I really can't trust you. And if I can't trust you, I have no reason for you to be in my life. Period. Yea, they say actions speak louder than words, but words are what put actions into motion.
I'm fed up with so many people these days. It's almost as if it's time for me to start over. I always look to myself first to see if it is something that I am doing before I cast blame on others, but it is honestly not anything I'm doing to cause all these "issues".
I'm trying to not let this one bad apple spoil my niceness for anyone else who comes along, but man, it's hard to not say to hell with all of you and your problems, figure it out on your own. Don't come to me for diddly-squat! and someone had the nerve to call me selfish..Angie is a lot of things, but SELFISH is definitely NOT one of them..miss me with that BS!
Brown..out!
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Umm and can I say how much it sucks to learn these life lessons in our 30s?
Thanks to FaceBook, having to deal with my lesson of losing a long-time friend because I made a horrible choice (both in them and what I did to end the friendship) is an ongoing gift.
Do I need to sharpen my shank?
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